Three Reasons Mr. Right Isn't Coming

Ok God, so when?
You've prayed about it. Cried about it. Fantasized about it. Gotten mad and said forget about it and then wished for it again.

But marriage still doesn't seem to be coming!  So what is really the problem here?

Everyone's situation is different and there are many possible reasons. Here are three to consider:

1. You are not visible- you don't go anywhere or do anything. You love being at home and don't purposely try to go where men are. Sorry Hun, God will not send your husband into your living room.

2. You are too predictable- each week you have the same routine where you go to the same gym, the same grocery store, go to work the same way, etc. The only way to expand your network is to meet new people. The only way to meet new people is to create opportunities for it. On purpose.

3. You are too gullible- Why didn't you run when he whipped out his player card? Or liar card or cheater card?  Oftentimes we have a feeling that a man is no good for us from the very beginning but because he's good looking or "our type" we choose to ignore it and dive in hoping that he would be different. Unfortunately some women get "stuck" with men like this for far too long. They are afraid of breaking it off because of the level of personal and emotional investment they have already made. God cannot bring a new good man into your life while you are still the girlfriend of a bad one. Create space.