If you don’t have this, don’t marry him! Even if you love him.

There is something that many of us don’t consider when it comes to choosing who to marry. 

• This thing will make or break your marriage.
• It is more important than love. 
• It will determine how happy you and your husband will be.
• It will also determine how much love he shows to you. 
• God will be checking to see if you have it. 

Listen to this episode to discover what “It” is and make sure you have it for the man you like before getting married. Please...

1. A man that makes jokes a lot and likes to make people laugh can be seen as

• Unserious and annoying-  someone who doesn’t take life seriously     OR
• Someone who enjoys life and is fun to be around because they have a positive take on everything

2. A man that is an intellectual and spends considerable amounts of their time seeking for more knowledge can be seen as 

• Boring and stuffy        OR
• Admirable and exciting because you can always learn something new from them

3. A man that speaks and acts slowly can be seen as 

• Unintelligent and lazy.      OR
• Careful and methodical

4.  A man that sacrifices all his  time, money and energy to serve God can be seen as 

• Someone who must not have anything to offer in the marketplace or anywhere else.     OR 
• Someone that is wise and understands that when we die only the things we did for Christ will last. 

5. A man that makes decisions quickly, gives instructions boldly and works aggressively to achieve goals can be seen as 

• Mean and obsessed with success  OR
• A leader with a bright future 

The difference in all these is your own personal perspective . What is it?

Scripture References in the episode :

Story- 2 Samuel 6:16-23


Ephesians 5:28 and 33

28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
33......each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.